Derek

No, she doesn’t always remember me. But I look forward to seeing her everyday. She’s still the same person. And everyday, I introduce myself an we get to know each other all over again. I’m lucky. Who else gets to fall in love 365 times a year? You see, here’s the thing. People see a couple of doddering fools caught in the time warp, waiting to die. But I see a beautiful young girl from Dublin who wants to spend the rest of her life with me. I win. Don’t feel sorry for me. Or Lizzie. We had the best life we could ever have had, because we spent it together.”

Derek

Sandman

Have you ever been in love? Horrible, isn’t it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens your heart and it means someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses. You build up this whole armor, for years, so nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life. You give them a piece of you. They don’t ask for it. They do something dumb one day like kiss you, or smile at you, and then your life isn’t your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so a simple phrase like ‘Maybe we should just be friends’ or ‘How very perceptive’ turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It’s a soul-hurt, a body-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. Nothing should be able to do that. Especially not love.

Neil Gaiman - Sandman Ana Marafiga